{"id":4783,"date":"2023-05-23T16:17:37","date_gmt":"2023-05-23T16:17:37","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tpcleadership.com\/benelux-fr\/uncategorized\/my-top-5-leadership-lessons-frouke-horstmann\/"},"modified":"2025-04-21T13:07:29","modified_gmt":"2025-04-21T12:07:29","slug":"my-top-5-leadership-lessons-frouke-horstmann","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tpcleadership.com\/benelux-fr\/developpement-des-leaders\/my-top-5-leadership-lessons-frouke-horstmann\/","title":{"rendered":"My Top 5 Leadership Lessons &#8211; Frouke Horstmann"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>In this series we have been talking to some of our Partners who have been sharing their Top 5 Leadership Lessons. In this blog, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.linkedin.com\/in\/frouke-horstmann-msc-icf-pcc-actc-90b68b2\/\">Frouke Horstmann<\/a>, \u00a0Managing Partner of our Dutch office shares hers.<\/p>\n<ol>\n<li>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9100;\">Know thyself. Leadership starts with self-awareness<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Someone on my path once asked me: \u2018Frouke, if you do not know your strengths, how can you leverage them?\u2019 I was touched by this question. Until then I had valued modesty. I\u2019ve learned that modesty goes hand in hand with knowing your strengths, but also with being aware of the impact you have on others, learning how can you grow in inspiration and being more intentional and mindful of your influence for the greater good.<\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9100;\">Learn to manage contradictions and ambiguity<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Today\u2019s world has become highly interconnected, complex and fast. Simple solutions to problems are rare. Running business as usual, innovating &amp; preparing for a future which no one knows what it will look like. People today are very divided in their opinion of what is the best way forward. This has also crept into organisations.<\/p>\n<p>Being comfortable with the tensions and contradictions this creates, and elevating the not-knowing to an art, are the leaders who sleep well at night and are experienced as inspiring.<\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9100;\">Listen, Listen, Listen<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>How many people have been on a communication or presentation training course? How many people have been on a listening course? First question, many people raise their hands. Second question, maximum 1-2. Listening with an open mind, an open heart and not being attached to the solution that you believe is the right one, creates connection and real insights. That is what we need in today\u2019s business and world. New answers.<\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9100;\">Help others grow<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>When we ask questions about leadership role models, people remember others who have made a difference in their lives, big or small. By believing in them, giving them a chance, seeing them, listening to them with head and heart, giving them wisdom and support.<\/li>\n<li>\n<h2><span style=\"color: #ff9100;\">Embrace continuous development<\/span><\/h2>\n<p>Staying curious, not pretending to know everything and being open to the unexpected. Surround yourself with people who think differently, are wired differently, have different experiences and knowledge. Provide an external focus. Experience how the world is constantly changing, don\u2019t jump on every new trend, but feel what is emerging.<\/li>\n<\/ol>\n<p>Have a leadership challenge? Feel free to <a href=\"https:\/\/tpcleadership.com\/benelux-fr\/contactez-nous\/\">contact us<\/a>, to see how we can support.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>In this series we have been talking to some of our Partners who have been sharing their Top 5 Leadership Lessons. 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